Comments on: The ex side of singlehood http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/ Wed, 14 Jan 2009 05:21:16 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Sche http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1812 Sche Thu, 20 Nov 2008 03:24:30 +0000 http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1812 Why can't there be more out lezzies! It will be fun to have me reading a blog like yours jonas... more power.. and more coupons! Why can’t there be more out lezzies! It will be fun to have me reading a blog like yours jonas…

more power.. and more coupons!

]]> By: Juan Miguel Rodriguez http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1789 Juan Miguel Rodriguez Mon, 06 Oct 2008 12:08:28 +0000 http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1789 As I've read per cosmopolitan magazine (i forgot the month and year published). Sex with the ex IS the last thing to go in the relationship. Either there is something innately sex with the thought, or intimacy not cherished / enjoy during the term when they were still together. Yes it is true that gay relationships are indeed celebrated in the most liberal manner at the same time,romantic fallouts after mergers and acquisitions have gone cold still take a straight path. Come to think of it, I've had dates with ex's (just dates, nothing sexual, but sometime romantic) , nothing untowards as far as questions are concerned (because most of the time its the ex that called out the shots in the breakup and the friends from both parties know of the breakup) but the ace in my sleeve is - the ex's friends votes go to me ..I turn tables somehow in the end, no matter how violent/bitter the actual breakup is. Which leads me to suppose that if you treat people right, even the ex and parties thereto - if at the end of the relationship you are at a loss, it just the perception of loss, because in reality, you've gained. As I’ve read per cosmopolitan magazine (i forgot the month and year published). Sex with the ex IS the last thing to go in the relationship. Either there is something innately sex with the thought, or intimacy not cherished / enjoy during the term when they were still together.

Yes it is true that gay relationships are indeed celebrated in the most liberal manner at the same time,romantic fallouts after mergers and acquisitions have gone cold still take a straight path.

Come to think of it, I’ve had dates with ex’s (just dates, nothing sexual, but sometime romantic) , nothing untowards as far as questions are concerned (because most of the time its the ex that called out the shots in the breakup and the friends from both parties know of the breakup) but the ace in my sleeve is – the ex’s friends votes go to me ..I turn tables somehow in the end, no matter how violent/bitter the actual breakup is.

Which leads me to suppose that if you treat people right, even the ex and parties thereto – if at the end of the relationship you are at a loss, it just the perception of loss, because in reality, you’ve gained.

]]> By: esbjorn http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1728 esbjorn Sun, 15 Jun 2008 16:43:25 +0000 http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1728 coupons or no, having sex with your ex will just open a can of worms. but i hate it that you can't be intimate somebody else. and what's worse,your ex is sleeping with everybody. coupons or no, having sex with your ex will just open a can of worms. but i hate it that you can’t be intimate somebody else. and what’s worse,your ex is sleeping with everybody.

]]> By: fullman http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1676 fullman Tue, 22 Apr 2008 11:13:52 +0000 http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1676 hey carlo! kamusta ka na? how's ben? exes are exes. hehehe. and while i also enjoy being single, i don't like jokes. better find me a date, ok? haha! :D hey carlo!

kamusta ka na? how’s ben?

exes are exes. hehehe. and while i also enjoy being single, i don’t like jokes. better find me a date, ok? haha! :D

]]> By: paderewski http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1675 paderewski Tue, 22 Apr 2008 02:51:21 +0000 http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1675 carlo here, im just using ben's account kasi nga wala pa ako blog. naaliw ako dito. parang nandun din yata ako. hehehe i admire your outlook towards your exes. most especially sa taong you-know-who na friend ko. di bale jonas, hanap ka namin ni ben para di ka na single. would you like that to be ajoke or not? hehehe have a nice day jonas! belated happy bday! :) carlo here, im just using ben’s account kasi nga wala pa ako blog. naaliw ako dito. parang nandun din yata ako. hehehe i admire your outlook towards your exes. most especially sa taong you-know-who na friend ko. di bale jonas, hanap ka namin ni ben para di ka na single. would you like that to be ajoke or not? hehehe have a nice day jonas! belated happy bday! :)

]]> By: fullman http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1644 fullman Fri, 08 Feb 2008 15:55:52 +0000 http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1644 @nocturne: well, i guess what i'm saying is that being friends with exes is possible. it can be complicated, but human relationships - especially the meaningful ones - are complicated. but i personally feel that i should not allow years of memories and moments that i've spent with an ex to waste, that i can move on from a failed relationship without feeling that what i've just been through is a waste of time. no worries about the heath mistake. :D @nocturne: well, i guess what i’m saying is that being friends with exes is possible. it can be complicated, but human relationships – especially the meaningful ones – are complicated. but i personally feel that i should not allow years of memories and moments that i’ve spent with an ex to waste, that i can move on from a failed relationship without feeling that what i’ve just been through is a waste of time.

no worries about the heath mistake. :D

]]> By: fullman http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1643 fullman Fri, 08 Feb 2008 15:51:17 +0000 http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1643 @benjie: hey hey. well, that's the thing about having sex with your ex - there are boundaries that must be observed. it can be difficult. but being friends with exes would depend on how you broke up. it's not necessarily about closure, because that would be entail personal reckoning, but about agreeing to open lines of communication, about consciously deciding to be friends. and if you've had meaningful relationships with them, then i think it shouldn't be hard. @benjie: hey hey. well, that’s the thing about having sex with your ex – there are boundaries that must be observed. it can be difficult. but being friends with exes would depend on how you broke up. it’s not necessarily about closure, because that would be entail personal reckoning, but about agreeing to open lines of communication, about consciously deciding to be friends. and if you’ve had meaningful relationships with them, then i think it shouldn’t be hard.

]]> By: nocturnalmammal http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1640 nocturnalmammal Fri, 08 Feb 2008 00:27:55 +0000 http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1640 haha.i love the coupon-generated exchange of thoughts. my say: permanently 'leaving' you ex is part of the healing process --at least to both parties. yes, you can still be 'close friends' but i don't think everything will turn out again as healthy as it was before. and i don't think you, as the ex-lover, for example would be a welcoming mammal in the face of his new found love. and in case you are still both single trying to rekindle friendship, where will the boundary lies --a repeat or just plain friendship? It's way too complicated. I rather leave my exes. unrelated excess: i stand myself corrected re:heath rant. i'm sorry i had to painfully do a second reading of your post. i initially thought you were the one saying "heath is in hell".peace! haha.i love the coupon-generated exchange of thoughts.

my say: permanently ‘leaving’ you ex is part of the healing process –at least to both parties. yes, you can still be ‘close friends’ but i don’t think everything will turn out again as healthy as it was before. and i don’t think you, as the ex-lover, for example would be a welcoming mammal in the face of his new found love. and in case you are still both single trying to rekindle friendship, where will the boundary lies –a repeat or just plain friendship?

It’s way too complicated. I rather leave my exes.

unrelated excess: i stand myself corrected re:heath rant. i’m sorry i had to painfully do a second reading of your post. i initially thought you were the one saying “heath is in hell”.peace!

]]> By: benjie http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1636 benjie Thu, 07 Feb 2008 11:24:20 +0000 http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1636 in as much as i wanted to be friends with my ex's, it can never be if the other party doesn't want to be. but as long as one's intention is sincere, no harm there. on the other hand, it is noteworthy to say that having sex with one's ex's or his lover may be a no no, it does hurt sometimes that one of your friends do otherwise to you. expect the unexpected even with friends, i must say so. thanks for having this blog. in as much as i wanted to be friends with my ex’s, it can never be if the other party doesn’t want to be. but as long as one’s intention is sincere, no harm there. on the other hand, it is noteworthy to say that having sex with one’s ex’s or his lover may be a no no, it does hurt sometimes that one of your friends do otherwise to you. expect the unexpected even with friends, i must say so.
thanks for having this blog.

]]> By: fullman http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1614 fullman Tue, 15 Jan 2008 03:42:28 +0000 http://fullman.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/the-ex-side-of-singlehood/#comment-1614 hey pepe. salamat! :D hey pepe. salamat! :D

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